I'll speak to you donnye from recent personal experience on this topic.
For the past 6 months to a year I've had numerous attempts made by various elders for a 'shepherding call' on myself. I've successfully thwarted each attempt by respectfully telling these meatheads that I'm doing great & am way too busy for their fuss!
I obviously know for a fact that their main reason for calling on myself is to put me on some sort of guilt-trip. The last thing they wanted to hear were such upbeat, cherry and optimistic replies such as I've been giving them.
The absolute last thing they want to hear is that a nearly inactive, very low hour publisher who rarely attends meetings (zoom & otherwise) and who shows very little interest in being in this religion is doing awesome independent of this cult.
Hope that helps!